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Post by shafali on Jan 8, 2006 22:33:58 GMT 5.5
Hello friends , I totally agree with this topic “Boys & Girls can be a good friends ” but only on one condition that is both of them had to have a sincere heart. But I think 90 percent boys can’t make this relation truly because mostly I feel boys see any girl like a Entertainment channel only . A girl friends are only status symbol of many boys .
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Post by Razas Gyan on Feb 18, 2006 18:45:48 GMT 5.5
Hi Guys N Gals,
First Fundamentally there is no real difference between a Friend n Love. Both are relationship and involves Emotions. the difference lies in the context and the party involved. You can be friends and and have romantic feelings but term it friendship. You can be love and have no actual friendship..
Why Girls Choose Love over Friendship?? Bcoz Girls actually like opposite sex. but due to some reasons if they cannt have a love relationship with him ( may be for she is engaged , she is married , she has some other pressure) then she will term it as a friendship. But inside herself she knows she has a romantic inclination and nothing but a love. similarly if she dont like the guy (for reasons like she is a not a love material) or she feels that guy is a good Helping material ,means lot of guys to impress girls start helping them, do work for them, so they are kind of good support system, Girls know that this guy cannt be a love but to draw maximum leverage out of him , make so called friendship with them.
Why Guys make Friendship? simply because they want to make love with that girl. if we dont think she is Love-Prospect we wouldnt make friendship with her.
And we choose Love over Friendship is we always have Romantic inclinations towards Girl- friends, so the question is useless.
Now that particular situation, The Guy was in love from the start. the girl was never in love. the girl was drawing leverage out of that guy in the pretext of Friendship. ( Girls always do that), so Guy is not at fault. The girl should have made her stance clear to the guy from the start in no uncertain term. but now she should face the music.
Love is a Tool used by girls..
Raza
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Post by ANi on Feb 19, 2006 0:03:41 GMT 5.5
Love is a Tool used by girls.. this is not the case always!
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Post by loyalgurl on Feb 19, 2006 9:48:01 GMT 5.5
I agree with ANi....coz it depends from person to person and how much u r capable of handling relationships...... blaming is easy ...being responsible is not....
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Post by razabpn on Feb 19, 2006 22:52:53 GMT 5.5
Loya
Blaming is easy and being responsible is not....
good thoughts and great excuse.. girls are so good at finding excuses. comeon stop blaming and own your mistakes.
that girl should have made her stance clear from day one with that poor boy. But instead she tried to draw benefits and now when that boy has proposed she is seeking help. come on. be Responsible.
and these types case is not isolated case but quite general
Raza
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sanika
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nothing beats logic!!!
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Post by sanika on Feb 20, 2006 0:08:27 GMT 5.5
yes a guy n a gal can be best of friends without romantic developments. i do hav many guy best frds. i think that a guy - gal best frdship is much better than guy-guy n gal - gal ones
sanika
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Post by loyalgurl on Feb 20, 2006 10:41:20 GMT 5.5
Mr. Raza Friendship is not about benefitting. Again, we are expressing our views here, not gathered here to make issues out of thoughts n opinions. I hope that you'd co-operate with us here. Thanks
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Post by razabpn on Feb 20, 2006 17:36:04 GMT 5.5
Friendship is not about benefitting that i accept. i guess girls dont believe that thats why for them friendship is directly proportional to benefits. Have you seen any contribution from any girls to friendship. Girl always Recieves never gives. and they have good argument to support that, we have emotional cntribution but noone needs them.
its the guys who do everything in a realtionship but girls take the credit. And for your kind information this is my VIEWS and not stray issues.
Regards Raza
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Post by pooja on Apr 27, 2006 13:53:24 GMT 5.5
all this fiasco abt girl and boys being friends depends on the nature and intention of the two people. i think though there is no harm if a girl and boy are friends, the thing which matters is that they follow it till the end.[/b]
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Post by gagansethi on Apr 27, 2006 23:26:12 GMT 5.5
gagaofcourse!!!! a guy n a gal can b best frendz....frendship is based on understanding and not sex....
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Post by birju on Apr 27, 2006 23:27:02 GMT 5.5
manav u r right I agree with u frindshp with opposite sex is a first step towords love
shah birju
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Post by PRATIBHA on Apr 28, 2006 14:41:28 GMT 5.5
;)thanx for akin such kindda question....even i think da same ,they can really be gud frnds if both have the same mutual understanding that...FRIEND IS FRIEND ...ONE SHUD NOT SEE WHETHER THE PERSON IS A GUY OR A GAL .....ALWAYS SMILE PPL ....PRATIBHA.. whatsthere2003@yahoo.com
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