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Post by urfriendfrlife on Jun 27, 2005 12:20:25 GMT 5.5
hello frnz! dis is my first poll to u all. i'm only lookin fr frank opinions. so rest asured that u wont be judge frm ur answer. so here we go:
Q: pre-marital sex is: 1) very important. gives us an in sight of our partner 2) good source of fun
3) should be avoided for orthodox reasons 4) ok if u r committed
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Post by y3knik on Aug 15, 2005 0:26:06 GMT 5.5
it is not important.. nd shuldnt b taken as a source of fun..
its dependant on da person, his\her religion nd his\her comfort level..
in india pre mar mayb considered unholy or so, but in sme places, it mayb no big deal.
so its actually on da person nd da culture he\she is surronded wid
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Post by Aafreen... Enjoying with Ziya on Nov 18, 2005 15:58:47 GMT 5.5
HI, according to me its wrong to have a primarital sex becoz,it not only shows tha t we are toward wrong ,but also that we cant wait for our patner,so get involved in it. this is a type of qn that im without words.
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Post by nikki on Nov 29, 2005 14:45:57 GMT 5.5
Premarital sex is a huge problem in society today; the numbers are staggering. "Among Americans who have been married, a raging ninety- three percent of men, and eighty percent of women (between ages eighteen and fifty-four) have lost their virginity before their honeymoon" (Hjelle). Teens everywhere are not waiting until they are married to have sex. "Teenagers are saying, ‘sex is fun’ and ‘everybody is doing it’" (Dave). Teens are less developed, emotionally and physically before having sex, and they are not prepared for the serious problems that come along with their decision to have sex. There are always consequences when a teenager chooses to have sex. "Teenagers, according to some polls, view premarital sex as acceptable as long as ‘two people love each other’" Despite what society shows us, each individual needs to make the decision of premarital sex based on the physical, emotional, social, and moral effects.
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Post by ANi on Dec 6, 2005 15:12:17 GMT 5.5
well i think its ok if you are commited to that person! we should change our mindset! but of corz be aware of the ill effects of it!
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boss
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Post by boss on Dec 23, 2005 1:23:42 GMT 5.5
pre matial sex --- depends on what u want in ur future. if u are ready to accept an experienced spouse then u can also go for it with proper protection and if u wish that ur spouse be fresh untouched then u also should also be like that. for me its a BIG NO... coz i wil prefer a partner like me.
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Post by san2osh on Jan 23, 2006 11:15:17 GMT 5.5
I kind of agree with boss............If u really love someone it should not be sex that decides how much u like ur parnter.......... Its the bond of together ness. I would say big NO to pre matial sex...... Whats wrong in wating till ur married !
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Post by gud108 on Feb 7, 2006 19:05:17 GMT 5.5
ya i too agree with nikki & the pre martial sex should be avoided because it disturb the mind of the couple after sex & upt marriage & many doubts may arise. so good to avoid
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Post by razabpn on Feb 19, 2006 9:44:56 GMT 5.5
Sex Without Love is abuse
If I love her then there is no Pre or After thing , If I feel like having sex i will have it.
secondly Pre sex is benefecial in order to judge sexual competency , inclination of ur partner.
its like a Mock CAT exam before real CAT exam
Society be F#@ked! Raza
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sanika
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nothing beats logic!!!
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Post by sanika on Feb 20, 2006 0:23:01 GMT 5.5
if u hav read the da vinci code , it is written that it is during sexual intercorse that one can enter into the space of spirituality and be more close to god along with physical pleasure . for that to happen it is very necessary that u love ur partner n hav complete trust in him/her . it is very special . dont tarnish it with multiple partners ! wait for the right person n be his / hers forever . so for me it is definately after marriage coz i want it not to be cheap fun coz thats temporary but a lasting pleasure bring happiness n joy
sanika
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Post by jjjjjjjjjjj on Sept 1, 2006 0:57:09 GMT 5.5
As sanika said it is not right according to the god i appreciated that thing and know very well but the thing is that u should have knowledge of sex before marriage coz now a days many of the marriages turn into divorce coz partners r not satisfied sexually n if we have knowledge we will end to happy marriage
Vikas
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Post by Saeed on Sept 1, 2006 15:57:31 GMT 5.5
An important and serious issue. Pre-marital sex should be avoided for moral, religious and cultural reasons.
I also tend to agree with "y3knik"... pre-marital sex is dependant on the person, his/her religion and his/her comfort level.. so it is actually on the person and the culture.
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