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Post by Maestro on Aug 10, 2005 14:48:43 GMT 5.5
New mms in market A gal is expelled from school as her mms is distributed in school ..... Is expelsion solves the problem???
Does these ppl really know the consequences of making mms and distributing ...
Are we accepting these trends as normal part giving a reason that our society is changing ?
Are these increasing Mms scandals polluting the mentality of a new generation ?
Think of a girl who has suffered ....
Think of it... Think of solutions Every one is a part of our society and you also had a role in it Do not hesitate in adding your comments Its really needed even ask your friend's to add comments Let's think of the various consequences of New Technology in immature Hands
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Post by payal on Aug 11, 2005 2:03:13 GMT 5.5
hello all, first of all i wud like to say that the topic chosen by u is a sensitive isssue.....depicting the trends of the changing world. your first question : Well expulsion is not the solution to the problem. It cud or cud not b the mistake of the girl for which she suffered, right? but still, we hav no right what so ever to peep into somebody's personal life....so the distributing of the mms is unethical. may b i am sum kinda more traditional or may b wrong for sum of u if i say that the girl too is responsible for what she is facing : bcoz there is a time for everything........n one does know at the inner side whether one is right or wrong. n what one sows is what one reaps.... ur second question : the people who make these mms do know what they are doing......but in my opinion fear to think abt the expanse of the consequences.....that is why they go ahead with these kind of things........ ur third question : we are not accepting these things as a normal part coz the society is changing.....coz if we did.....we wud never hav created such a big issue out of these things .....yes the society is changing......but maintaining our limits n setting our priorities depends on an individual n not on the changing society......this is a general observation that if a kid is spoilt, people blame it on the parents n say that parents did not teach their children anything.....but as a matter of fact, our parents never lag behind in teaching us the right....again it is upto us n our priorities to choose our friends, and decide in life what is right or what is wrong.... ur last question : well the increasing mms scandals are not polluting the mentality of the new generation : the increasing scandals itself are the result of the polluted mentality of the new generation.......relations are mere lust now...the reason of which i hav no idea abt..... i think i hav given every one enough material to read n think upon willl catch u up later bye for now payal
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Post by Himadri on Aug 11, 2005 10:58:46 GMT 5.5
Answer1:
The expulsion of the girl is not the solution of the problem. Because the girl was not the problem, but she was the cause of the problem.
Answer 2:
These people do not realise the consequences of such things, because they have never been taught to think rationally, to think with a vision.
Answer 3:
I don't think so. Indians by nature are a bit conservative... so they won't accept it as a sign of changing of society's values.
Answer 4:
They certainly are... in the sense that people are finding out new means to satisfy their sexual fantasies.
Now let's take an overview of the whole atmosphere...
Over these centuries, Indian society has put lot of restrictions over our social behaviour. Though crimes related to sex were there but these did not find much mention in the news. The good thing in this was that we did not have any example to experiment with. You know, where ignorance is bliss... With the advancement in communication technology the sphere of news increased as a result the incidents related to sex gradually started pouring into our ears. So, we found some example to follow with. Just a similie... in cricket, when Sri Lanka started hitting out in the first 15 overs others also started following the suit. They realised that this can also be done!
I am not at all saying that the communication technology is the culprit or that it should be stopped. I am just showing how this affected our lives.
With the improvement in communication technology, we came to know more about Western countries, especially American ones. We came to know there societies. North American countries are our dreamland - these are RICH. So, leading their kind of life style became our motto. To put it simple, we started aping them. But hardly did we realise that the societies which we see in those countries have not become such in few decades. Their mindset, climate etc. are quite different from our mindset, culture etc. It is a very good thing to go to a restaurant and have whatever is available but one should take care what one can digest. All the food served there may of very high quality but what one should take depends upon one's digestive capability. The problem with us was that we started to accept evrything that had a western stamp. We considered these as the standard of quality.
Now let's have a brief look into western society. They are rich, they had all the luxuries of life. But these could not bring any satsfaction to them, so they started experimenting with their lifestyle. Whatever you find there are the results of years of experimentation - gay, lesbianism, living together etc. This is called ill-directed Rajas - the energy. They were spiritually vacant, in fact there is still a spiritual vacancy in their heart and one can see that they are tilting towards eastern spirutual philosophies.
We had been in Tamas over these centuries. We are moving towards Rajas but this tremendous amount of Rajas we are having is getting astray. That's why there is destructive attitude in Indian youth now-a-days. They are ready either detroy others or themselves.
You need to build a dam to use the energy of a river, don't you? Here we also need to build a dam within us so that we can use our tremendous energy for our own good and good of the society at large. There the spiritual anchoring plays a vital role. One who is spiritually awakened h(is)er Vivek- the power of judgement, is also awakened. Thus (s)he can make correct decisions. By spirituality, I don't mean belief in God etc.
If you want to know more on this you can contact me at himadrisc@yahoo.com
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Post by y3knik on Aug 15, 2005 0:19:19 GMT 5.5
well
first.. expulsion doesnt solve nethng.. da gal is still alive nd cn go ahead nd do nethng again..
second.. dey do knw da concequence.. but dey dun care cause money corrupts
third.. v r acceptin em cause frankly.. dere is ntn v can do bout em..
fourth.. its da gals stupid decision dat led her to this point.. she is 2 blame.. she shuld hve understood wat she is getin herself into
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Post by Aafreen... Enjoying with Ziya on Nov 18, 2005 16:08:37 GMT 5.5
according to me, 1.expelling the girl would be wrong,because u have let har known that she is in the wrong direction.but giving her a warning can make the situation under control. 2.the people doesnt know ,but are only intrested in having fun by leaking the mms. 3.no.cant accept 4.ya sure it is polluting the mentality of the generatoin.and teaching them how to do more and more evil deeds. 5.i just can sypathise the girl that she trusted the boy and did so.but ddidnt thought it would bring such results.
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Post by nikki on Nov 30, 2005 19:29:57 GMT 5.5
guys i think we are deviating from the topic we shud look for solutions we have no right to blame someone cos we really dont know whether the gal has anything to do with it or not but i do agree this has an adverse impact on youth. i have no intention to hurt anyone's feelings.
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Post by ANi on Dec 6, 2005 15:10:36 GMT 5.5
well wot was done was wrong. do you think expelling her will solve the problem? there are thousands of such cases floating around. wot we need is proper counselling and i see absolutely no reason to ban camera phones! instead of taking such stupid steps the schools must educate the students about it. (yeah i'm hit in the neck coz of cellphone ban in my colg, coz i can't live widout it! )
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Post by y3knik on Dec 7, 2005 9:04:01 GMT 5.5
yaa.. its actually funy.. cell phone bans!!
lol..
grow up ppl....
next we knw... people wont be allowed to get tiffin boxes cause it may contain poisoned food!!!
if u want to make children responsible adults... the first step is to give thm the right amount of freedom..
not as much as the people v r talkin bout and not not so little tht u need to ask ur parents b4 goin to the washroom!!
i dun c how bannin cell phones at places is gonna solve nethn... let ppl carry em as long as dey r on silent or vibration mode... and impose fines if they ring in class!!
i guess tht is the btr way arnd it
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Post by Mahendra KShah guntur on May 13, 2006 22:06:27 GMT 5.5
hello e'1 new technology or still new inventions r n't bad but i agree with some one's opinion tht societies must use it in very useful & positive purposes & counselling should be given to younger ones Mahendra K.shah Guntur
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