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Post by rameshramnani on Feb 18, 2006 12:48:59 GMT 5.5
Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship--never.
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Post by rameshramnani on Feb 18, 2006 12:59:17 GMT 5.5
I lived for love and gave love Got none in return at all And when I had none to give Found no one there at all
When I reach the end, some day No one will ever recall, One who loved so selflessly But was never loved at all.
But on a humble tomb, that day, My epitaph will say it all: I chose to love and not be loved Than never to love at all.
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Post by sindhu on Feb 18, 2006 13:06:06 GMT 5.5
I dnt think the frndship shud come 2 an end jst coz the grl's reply was negative. Doesnt frndship mean more than one not agreein wit the other's thoughts . The guy jst xpressed his feelings & the grl hers.. they wernt the same but tht's the way in frndship. Ofcourse the guy mite b burnin inside whn he meets her the nxt time but thn there's nothin tht good old frndship cant mend... & i totally disagree tht a guy &a grl can never b frnds.
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Post by arjun on Feb 18, 2006 15:41:23 GMT 5.5
hi,i'm 21. i hvnt seen much of the world. hope my reply dsnt sound stupid.
If a guy and a girl are friends and if the guy starts feeling "special" 4 the girl and he lets her know abt it, there can be 2 outcomes with respect 2 their love-life. they cd fall in love with each other. or the love could remain in his heart, cos she dsnt want 2 be in love with her(whatever her reasons r).
but, if he gives up the friendship bcos of that, theirs was not a true friendship, cos in friendship, u never give up on her. but, it wont be all that unfair if he does so. cos the girl mite say - u r my best friend and hang out with some other idiot at the same time.
anyway, i think, TRUE LOVE NEVER ENDS, not when a girl says NO
if i were the guy, i wd let her go her way n remain her friend n love her at the same time. but that love will remain in my heart cos i know she dsnt need it. but thatz not gonna kill my love, cos its true n so it'll remain
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Post by sapna on Feb 18, 2006 17:26:40 GMT 5.5
i know the meaning of love and it is great thoughts of u people
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Post by Yogeshwaran G on Feb 18, 2006 18:11:19 GMT 5.5
Love has different meanings~~~ even Mother's care to her child can be called as 'LOVE'.... so friendship is also one kind of love. so pls dont confuse love with the friendship. Deep friendship makes u to understand ur friend very well. this can make a boy to think of having tht gal as his Life Partner.... but she might not agree... tht is her choice.. (Each one has his/her right to reject/accept) this should not break his/her friendship. Friendship is different, Life Parter is different.. dont confuse,,,,, i too disagree tht a guy and a gal never b friends.
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Post by Jas on Feb 18, 2006 18:15:25 GMT 5.5
Well I've been through the situation we are talking over here.We are no longer friends even though we tried.I have always loved her and its been 2 years since our break off and I still love her.It was her choice to end it.I could not suppress my feelings for her even though I tried.We could not be just friends because of me and we could not be in love because of her.The only choice was to stop talking to each other.We both wanted to be friends but she could not accept that i loved her and i could not accept that she didn't.There was no choice but to go our own ways.It actually depends on the two persons involved.I think we could have been friends but there is sacrifice involved,both or atleast one has to sacrifice.in our case we tried sacrificing a little but it didn't work.She always knew I loved her and also that we had no future.I don't know how much she loved me because she called it a mistake when we ended but what I do know is that we were great friends with immense trust in each other but love came in between.
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Post by Razas Gyan on Feb 18, 2006 18:37:29 GMT 5.5
Hi Guys N Gals,
First Fundamentally there is no real difference between a Friend n Love. Both are relationship and involves Emotions. the difference lies in the context and the party involved. You can be friends and and have romantic feelings but term it friendship. You can be love and have no actual friendship..
Why Girls Choose Love over Friendship?? Bcoz Girls actually like opposite sex. but due to some reasons if they cannt have a love relationship with him ( may be for she is engaged , she is married , she has some other pressure) then she will term it as a friendship. But inside herself she knows she has a romantic inclination and nothing but a love. similarly if she dont like the guy (for reasons like she is a not a love material) or she feels that guy is a good Helping material ,means lot of guys to impress girls start helping them, do work for them, so they are kind of good support system, Girls know that this guy cannt be a love but to draw maximum leverage out of him , make so called friendship with them.
Why Guys make Friendship? simply because they want to make love with that girl. if we dont think she is Love-Prospect we wouldnt make friendship with her.
And we choose Love over Friendship is we always have Romantic inclinations towards Girl- friends, so the question is useless.
Now that particular situation, The Guy was in love from the start. the girl was never in love. the girl was drawing leverage out of that guy in the pretext of Friendship. ( Girls always do that), so Guy is not at fault. The girl should have made her stance clear to the guy from the start in no uncertain term. but now she should face the music. Love is a Tool used by girls..
Raza
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sanika
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nothing beats logic!!!
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Post by sanika on Feb 19, 2006 23:49:01 GMT 5.5
i do not know abt love as i hav never been in love b4 but i do know friendship. if the guy saw a best friend in the girl , he will not let the developent of these new feelings spoil their friendship. coz just as true love true friends r very rare and very precious . also if i were the girl would seriously consider the guy as according to me love includes the perfect blend of healthy amt of lust and deep friendship. the lust is a gr8 inducer but the friendship is wat helps it last longer.
sanika
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sanika
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nothing beats logic!!!
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Post by sanika on Feb 19, 2006 23:51:03 GMT 5.5
i do not know abt love as i hav never been in love b4 but i do know friendship. if the guy saw a best friend in the girl , he will not let the developent of these new feelings spoil their friendship. coz just as true love true friends r very rare and very precious . also if i were the girl would seriously consider the guy as according to me love includes the perfect blend of healthy amt of lust and deep friendship. the lust is a gr8 inducer but the friendship is wat helps it last longer.
sanika
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Post by cute boy on Feb 20, 2006 9:57:57 GMT 5.5
hi everyone,
i think the girl should not reject her best friend's proposal of Love.
and again if she refuses then it should not infect their friendship they can go ahead with their friendship and be friends again.
that is what i think i dont know if iam right or wrong.
see you laterz, dashing_stunning@yahoo.com
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Post by harrypotter on Sept 3, 2006 8:24:15 GMT 5.5
you are right!
that is what my opinion also
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